Just some few weeks back I had what I considered free time to explore my smartphone again. And guess what, I discovered another useful function on a tool I have been carrying about for almost a year. I shared my experience with a friend days later and at the end of our discussion we both agreed that we don’t get to optimise the use of most of these phones we hold in our hands. Partly because we claim not to have the time to explore, but more because we are usually satisfied with the basic functions.
It then dawned on me afterwards that there were many relationships that have collapsed that would have still been thriving today; there were many husbands/wives whose lives would have been a true reflection of Ecclesiastes 4:9 and there are many marriages going through “amputation process” that can still enjoy lovely bliss if lovers will only take time to explore the custom-built lover of theirs. The Word of God says that God gave Adam a companion suitable for him (see Gen. 2:18), many suitable companions’ potentials remained untapped simply because so many lovers limited themselves to the basics only.
A lady wrote us after one of the love enrichment seminars we held in a part of Europe and stated: “If not for God and you sir, I don’t know what would have happened to my marriage”. God gave both her and the husband the opportunity to take a closer look at each other and they found out that in each still lies potentials meant for their greatness together. To God be the glory that the marriage described as “almost gone” is going pleasurably well – hallelujah!
We sincerely want to ask you to find time to explore the potentials embedded in your lover with a view to attaining the greatness God has in plan for you. For we are convinced that if all true lovers will take to heart God’s word as in Hebrews 10:24 they will surely enjoy their love lives. “And let us consider and give attentive, continuous care to watching over one another, studying how we may stir up (stimulate and incite) to love and helpful deeds and noble activities, (Hebrews 10:24 AMP)”.
Do your best to stimulate and incite to love and not to anger or those negative comments.
Enjoy blissful love relationship in Christ Jesus.